Every thing is not roses. There are thorns in the bushes but use your gifts whole heartily and your gifts will take you where you need to be. Read: Proverbs 18:16 (cilck on link below and read today’s Scripture). Now remember GO TO CHURCH!
http://bibleresources.bible.com/passagesearchresults2.php?tp=31&book_id=24&c=18&passage1=Proverbs+18%3A16&version1=51