When you’re ask how you stay so calm and peaceful be prepared to answer in a gentle way respecting whose you ARE.
Read: 1 Peter 15-16
15 Instead, you must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks about your hope as a believer, always be ready to explain it. 16 But do this in a gentle and respectful way.[a] Keep your conscience clear. Then if people speak against you, they will be ashamed when they see what a good life you live because you belong to Christ.