Be critical about yourself and your own life and just pray for others.
Read: Matthew 7:3
3 “And why worry about a speck in your friend’s eye[a] when you have a log in your own?
16 This is what the Lord says:
“Stand at the crossroads and look;
ask for the ancient paths,
ask where the good way is, and walk in it,
and you will find rest for your souls.
But you said, ‘We will not walk in it.’
24 There are “friends” who destroy each other,
but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.