Criticizing and using harsh words with your spouse will never bring peace to any situation. Try exercising patience and correct with kindness.
Read: I Peter 3:7
7 In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.